I am not sad. This is the last of so many good byes over the years...so many losses as the disease ravaged her once bright mind and stole her beautiful smile and her humor and simple joy in living. Right now I am rejoicing that she is free from any pain or fear, and most of all free from the terrible confusion that haunted her days for a long time now.
I am sure I will have sad moments. I loved my sister dearly, and I would not be the person I am without having had her loving presence in my life. She was my sister, my friend, and in many ways she was my mother too.
About Two Years Ago
The Alzheimer's was advanced, but she was still trying to have fun and joke with me. It was a bittersweet day.
Dearest Darlaine,
What joy you must be having as you explore your new world.
Thanks for loving me always and sharing so much of my life. I'm finally reading the book you gave me a few years ago. I couldn't do it till recently, but a few days ago it felt right. As I read it, I'll picture you reading together with me as we so often did.
Hey, sweetie, sing a duet with Mahalia Jackson for me! How about "Walkin' in Jerusalem"? Oh, perfect! I wish I could hear you.
I love you, little big sister. Jesus must have been so happy to see you arrive! I'll be with you soon.
D.
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May perpetual light shine upon her.
Prayers for you, your mama, and all who loved your sister. (((((SO)))))
My prayers and love are with you, dear one.
Thanks C.H. and Psalmist. I won't tell my mother though. She is past understanding, and her memory is so short I would have to tell her again and again. It will seem wrong not to tell her...thinking of that makes me cry. But it would be worse to do so. Sometimes she calls me Darlaine, and I'm never sure if she is just using the wrong name of if she does have us mixed up. I pray my mother will join my sister soon. She is so miserable as she is now. Sigh. God knows.
When my Mother died of colo-rectal cancer that had spread into her liver and spleen, she was in such pain that the doctor told me neither the coma nor the pain killers the nurses administered to her were powerful enough to quell the pain. I had prayed, with our pastor at the time, for a swift end to this terrible ordeal for her. I would compare my feelings at losing her then to yours at losing your beloved sister now. There is the pain, the sorrow from losing the one we love and yet, there is the relief too knowing the agony they had endured had now come to an end. Death is actually, as I understand it too, a time to celebrate as we rejoice in a loved one's going "home" -that thought does help to push the grief aside bit by bit. My sympathy in the loss of your dear sister and I too rejoice with you on the reception she no doubt enjoyed once on the other side -health of mind and body restored, reunited with other family members once again.
Dear SO,
Thoughts and prayers are with you.
Take care of you!
God is calling you to grieve and rejoice on many levels. May you feel God's loving presence always in these situations.
My prayers and deepest sympathy. I am so glad you had such a sweet sister here. He knows.
I'm so sorry for your loss. (J)'s Dad developed Alzheimer's when he was 65, and died 4 years later of complications of throat cancer. It is so sad to see the light go out. I'm sure that she is releaved that the fog is gone.
May the One who has now welcomed her hold you and all who will miss her in the palm of His hand.
I'm glad you are at peace with this. My prayers are with you.
"I will praise the Lord with all my heart and never forget His blessings to me."
Holding you up in the arms of prayer, SO!
God bless you and your family. The Pursifuls will be praying for you all.
No matter how much a blessing one's passing is it still brings grief and sorrow. You are in my thoughts and prayers even more so right now.
((((( SO )))))
Many thoughts and prayers coming your way. Sister relationships are very precious. Blessings, Liz
Singing Owl,
My prayers are with you and your family today.
Hugs,
Rachel
Oh, gosh. Wind knocked out of me. Praying for your grieving and laughing and remembering.
with love.
What a beautiful tribute to your sister. May all your memories of her be sweet ones...
My condolences and prayers for you, SO. Such a loss. May she find peace and you, concolation in that.
(((o))) and prayers SO
I'm so sorry for your loss--and thankful that you have so many good memories, too.
((SO))
Dear Owl, I am so sorry. ((SO)). Remembering you and your sister in prayer...and mourning but not as those without hope, thanks be to God.
Prayers for you and your family.
Singing Owl, thank you for posting the beautiful picture and remembrances.
I am sorry for all the losses through the years as you saw her slip away, and rejoice with you in her new and abundant life.
What a Lent you have with the discernment on your vocation...Hugs and prayers and thank you for being such a faithful beacon of hope for so many of us.
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